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Thursday, July 03, 2008

Thu, 03 Jul 2008 19:05:59 GMT

It's been 1.5 month after my marriage. So many people asked me how my marriage life is. I always say good. I think I like it. But, we still need to learn how to live with the other. Right now, my life filled up with meetings, dinners, surprise parties... We seldom have time to eat at home together. I know it's bad. See if I will do it better la... lots of things need to be installed and fixed at home. 24 hour is not enough. sign...

You know what, I am gonna put all these things away starting from tomorrow. We are gonna wild camping this weedend with david fellowship. Let's have fun in the camp!!!!!

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Sat, 17 May 2008 11:51:36 GMT

今日係我同 Victoria o既大喜日子﹐心情興奮﹐感覺又特別﹐而家係屋企等o的兄弟來﹐十點幾就去接新娘!唔講住啦!!!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Sun, 11 May 2008 14:34:57 GMT

仲有少過一個禮拜，下個星期六就係等左11年o既日子，o的親戚朋友會從四方八面而來，到時兩間屋都會爆晒棚，將會好熱鬧啊!!

Thursday, May 08, 2008

Thu, 08 May 2008 00:36:53 GMT

10 days before our wedding!!! We have made the final turn, now it's one straight road!!

Things still need to do: seating plan, borrow bed sheet, mattress and blanket (contact me if you have extra), buy darily things for our new house, pack the wedding material, ceremony program, pick up relatives and friends from the airport day by day starting from next monday, prepare food and drinks for people who live in my house...etc.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Sun, 20 Apr 2008 03:53:16 GMT

仲有少過一個月就係小弟小登科嘅大日子，我係嗰啲未死到臨頭都唔知驚嗰啲人，所以一路都覺得仲有排先結婚，心情唔會太緊張、壓力亦唔係好大。但係喺上星期三，我同the one喺度執緊結婚當日嗰個行情時，當我哋睇到「牧師、新郎、伴郎在candle room準備，新娘、父親在門外等候」時，我哋兩個喺冇夾過嘅情形底下，個心都不其然緊張起來，我開始感受到「嚟啦今次」，好緊張！！

Friday, April 04, 2008

Fri, 04 Apr 2008 04:23:08 GMT

呢排忙緊啲乜？除咗係結婚嗰啲嘢，就係新屋嘅裝修，等我一齊帶大家睇吓！

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Thu, 13 Mar 2008 19:10:53 GMT

【明報專訊】一日只得24小時，又要上網、打機、傾電話、行街……香港人總嫌時間太少、物質不夠。一項亞太區青少年消費及生活模式調查發現，香港青少年物質生活冠絕各地，但卻不見得快樂。被問到「你現在生活開心嗎﹖」時，香港有11%青少年人認為自己不快樂，相比起亞洲其餘10個地方的快樂指數，排名尾二，僅高於榜末的台灣。豐富的物質世界，令一眾青少年變得像扯線布偶。

市場調查公司思緯昨日發表以上調查結果，調查於去年10月至12月間進行，訪問了11個地區共1.2萬名8至24歲青少年。該11地區包括香港、新加坡、中國大陸、韓國、台灣、馬來西亞、泰國、印尼、菲律賓、澳洲及印度。

調查發現，亞洲青年人普遍「一心多用」，同一時間利用多項媒體接收資訊、並進行各類活動，一日24小時平均可進行共38小時的活動，但仍能保持8小時睡眠時間。香港年輕人每日實際上活動的時間更達43小時。

亞太區內最快樂的年輕人在印度，達98%印度年少年表示活得很快樂，其次是菲律賓及印尼。調查人員指出，相信物質充裕，人所追求的更多，於是感到不快樂。

No.1最物質

亞洲各地中，香港青少年看來生活較「物質化」，擁有的個人消費產品，包括手機、數碼相機、手提電子遊戲機，均高踞亞洲各地首位。調查顯示，83%香港青少年擁有自己的手機，其次為新加坡(76%)及韓國(75%)；另外，41%香港青少年擁有數碼相機，高踞亞洲首位，第二位是澳洲(35%)。至於手提電子遊戲機，香港43％青少年擁有，又排第一，新加坡就排第二(34%)。

4小時上網

亞洲青少年最愛上網及看電視，所花時間比看書、閱報、做運動都多。香港青少年每日平均用4.3小時上網，睇電視就日花4.6小時，兩者都較全亞洲平均數(上網2.8小時，看電視4小時)為高。調查同時指，亞洲青少年愛「一心多用」，在上網的同時，亦會聽音樂、睇電視、打機等，但在眾多活動之中，他們上網時的專注程度最高。

No.1拍短片

亞洲青少年普遍最愛用手提電話傳SMS短訊，但香港青少年則有「特別偏好」，就是最愛用手機拍短片，此喜好為全亞洲之冠，達35%；相比下，內地青少年則愛以電話下載鈴聲或音樂等。

2小時講電話

香港青少年平均每天花2小講電話，全亞洲排第三，其中約一半時間利用手機「煲粥」。首位最愛傾電話的是泰國青少年，平均每天花2小時48分鐘講電話。

4小時打機

亞洲年輕人平均每周花4小時23分鐘玩電子遊戲，包括電視遊戲機、手提遊戲機及網上遊戲。全亞洲最沉迷打機的同樣是泰國青少年，每天花61分鐘；香港機迷則平均花56分鐘，排第三。

No.1愛羽毛球

香港青少年跟中國大陸、馬來西亞及菲律賓一樣，均選擇羽毛球為最愛運動，而近兩成人最愛觀看的體育資訊是足球。

No.1明星劉翔

香港青少年最喜愛的運動明星，由06年調查開始就一直是碧咸，今年名次稍有改動，劉翔已代替碧咸成為首位。周杰倫及陳奕迅則同佔香港青少年最愛歌星的首位。

Friday, February 29, 2008

Fri, 29 Feb 2008 14:54:03 GMT

九型人格分析
第九型	和平型、和平者、和諧型、維持和諧者 24%
第七型	快樂主義型、豐富型、活躍型、創造可能者、享樂型 17%
第八型	領袖型、能力型、挑戰者、保護者、權威型 14%
第四型	藝術型、浪漫者、自我型、憑感覺者 12%
第五型	智慧型、觀察者、思想型、理性分析者、思考型 11%
第六型	忠誠型、忠誠型、尋找安全者、謹慎型 7%
第三型	成就者、事業型、成就型、實踐型 7%
第二型	助人者、全愛型、助人型、成就他人者、博愛型 5%
第一型	完美主義者、完美型、改革者、改進型、秩序大使 4%

我的九型人格分析？

第九型

在很多情況，你都是和平使者，善解人意，隨和。你很容易了解別人，卻不是太清楚自己想要什麼，會顯得優柔寡斷。相對地說，你的主見會比較少，寧願配合其他人的安排，做一個很好的支持者，所以你是心較被動的。

主要特徵：

用不必要的事物來取代真實的需要。最重要的事情往往被留在了一天的最後時刻。
難以做出決定。「我是同意，還是不同意」或「我是想去，還是不想去？」
根據習慣行動，重複熟悉的解決方法。儀式主義。
很難說"不"。
壓抑身體的能量和怒火。
用被動進攻和頑固堅持來表現控制力。
關注他人的立場。
難以保持個人的立場，但是卻能擁有感知他人內心體驗的能力。

代表人物：林肯、華德‧迪士尼

第七型

活躍型的你，有著以下特點：樂觀、精力充沛、迷人、好動、貪新鮮、五時花六時變……「最緊要玩得開心」是你的生活哲學。你渴求有新鮮感的生活，所以很不喜歡被束縛、被控制。你的活力是玩的活力，又跟第三型的成就型又有所不同，是最佳的活動攪手。

主要特徵：

需要保持高度的興奮。同時參與多項活動，對很多事情都感興趣。
喜歡保持感情的高峰狀態。。
保持多種選擇，並把這當作一種避免對單一任務進行承諾的工具。
用快樂的精神活動，比如談話、計劃和思考，取代深層的接觸。
喜歡把信息相互關聯，進行系統分析。
能夠從不相關或者看似矛盾的觀點中找到不尋常的聯繫和相似點。

代表人物：史蒂芬‧史匹伯

第八型

你擁有很多當領袖的特質：豪爽、不拘小節、自視甚高、遇強越強、關心、正義、公平。你清楚自己的目標，並努力前進。由於不願被人控制，且具有一定的支配力，所以你很有潛質做領袖帶領大家。由於你好勝性格，有時侯會對人有點攻擊性，讓人感到壓力。

主要特徵：

控制個人的佔有物和空間，控制那些可能影響自己生活的人。
具有進攻性，公開表達自己的憤怒。。
關注正義，喜歡保護他人。
把打架和性愛當作與他人接觸的方式。相信那些在正面衝突中不退縮的人。
把過度看作克服厭倦的良藥。夜生活、瘋狂娛樂、徹夜狂歡、暴飲暴食……
難以意識到自我的依賴性。當別人愛上他們時，他們會通過各種方式拒絕真實情感，比如離開、認為無聊或者暗自譴責自己對他人的誤導。
常常把所有事物極端化。
缺乏對自身弱點的認識。

代表人物：當奴‧杜林普

嫲嫲，我會掛念你...

Thu, 24 Jan 2008 15:13:16 GMT

I am going back to hk again. My grandma (father's mother) passed away peacefully in the afternoon on 1/24(HK time). She had been to hospital on and off because of the old problems. Sometimes, she had fever, sometimes, she felt pain. This time was the same. But, after she arrived hospital, 肺炎(lung "yim") stopped her heart beat and breath once. Fortunately, a nurse was standing right next to her and saved her. But, she was in coma after that. She used the machine to live for a day. Her sons and daughters came back to see her last face. They decided to stop the machine because she had been suffering in the pain for a long time.

I think I am ok. I only miss her. She accepted Jesus 2 years ago. And she was doing ok. She read New Testiment once. She prayed. When I prayed with her, she would repeat almost every word that I said. In this way, I could know she was really praying all the way from her heart. I believed she is now with Jesus in Heaven...

The pic was taken after the day of my hk wedding. She couldn't go to my hk wedding banquet because she was in hospital. On the next day, we have prepared a one table banquet for her. It wasn't our plan because that depended on her suitation. We only planned to have the tea ceremony in the hospital. That night was a happy night. She stayed for the whole dinner for 2 hours. She laughed and spoke all night. Victoria and I are now wearing the wedding ring that she gave us as wedding present.

I will go check about the flight ticket price today. Wilson will probably go with me. But, we don't need to rush back to hk because the funeral date has not been set yet. So, we will wait for a few days. Hopefully, we can get it done before chinese new year. Then, we may leave in the middle of next week. Wilson will come back in a week and I will come back with Victoria.

Friday, January 18, 2008

Fri, 18 Jan 2008 02:06:47 GMT

Haha... wedding banquet was really a wonderful, celebrating and crowded event!! Victoria and I enjoyed it very much. A few days before the banquet, we had a chance to go to Taipei for photo shooting. That's also a memorable experience!!

We got on the plane in the early morning of the last day of 2007. It's nice to have another couple going with us. So, we can chat and share during the whole trip. On the first day, we went to the studio to choose clothes. Girls can pick 2 wedding gowns and 3 night dresses out of hundred dresses where boys can only have 2 out of 5 different color same style tux. Yes, it's not fair, but, I don't mind. Well, the girls spent 1.5 hours and boys only took half an hour. After that, we went out for dinner. Since we had to make sure no one got sick because of the food, we barely found a "clean" place to eat. That night was the New Year Eve, but, we couldn't stay up too late because we had to get up early and arrived the studio at 8am. We didn't go to any countdown event even though we knew Taiwan 101 had a fireworks show. -_- We knew it's 12:00 while we heard the far away fireworks wispering. Four of us just celebrated the New Year on a Taipei dark, quiet and cold street. I think it's good enough to remember!! ^_^

The second day was the big day - photo shooting. We heard the bad news yesterday. The weather was gonna be cold and the temperature went down below 10oC. Because of beautiful pictures, we decided to go for it (in fact, we don't have other choice except canceling it). The photo man warned us not to go to any sea shore already. Since we thought we were young and could handle it, who care it's cold or not. The shooting started from 10am to 10pm, inside to outside to inside. I really need to give a big hand to the girls. For boys, we were still shaking when the wind blew. The girls only wore one dress. Chilling wind blew to their shoulders and into their dresses. Probably because they are the one who suggest to come to Taipei. The result was quite unexpected. We hardly saw our shaking or weird faces in the pictures.

Elaine got sick after that.

The third day was the day we could go out and play. Since we had finished the photo shooting, we can eat anything we want. Before we went out, Steve set up a game for us to play. Somehow, we discovered that he lost his passport. So, we opened all suitcase, checked all pockets and bags, called the studio, asked the receptionist in hotel, looked underneath the mattress... for an hour. We finally found that it's in his own bag which he carried around and said he had looked over and over it!!! -_- We ate and ate for the day.

The forth day was photo choosing. We didn't spend enough time to pick. For the people who will go to Taiwan for wedding picture, spend more time on this. We need to take the taxi to go to the airport. See how rush we were.

tbc...